Herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, syphilis, HIV and gonorrhoea, these are just some on the long list of things you do not want in your mouth. Unfortunately most people in my generation seem to forget, or more likely weren’t taught in the first place that STDs can be passed through oral sex. Or they know and don’t respect themselves enough to use protection.
When having oral sex with a penis (not with an actual penis with a person connected to one) you have two basic options:
- Use condoms. You can buy flavoured condoms and or normal ones and use flavoured lube which will improve the taste of penis for you, and make sure you don’t get mouth herpes or any other STD in your mouth. It’s a win win situation.
- You and your partner agree to an exclusive relationship and both go and get checked at a sexual health clinic to make sure your both clean. Whilst this sounds very official, it’s often the easiest option especially if you only have one partner at a time.
A lot of people say condoms ruin the moment or it doesn’t feel as good. I can assure you it really makes very little difference to feeling. And in terms of ruining the moment, it takes about 5 seconds to put on and you can do it while your kissing your partner.
When having oral sex with someone connected to a vagina you again, have two basic options:
- Dental dams. You can use these things called dental dams, basically they look like a bit of cling film you put over a vagina or anus (if that’s what your into) and you it acts like a barrier so you don’t catch any STDs. It is actually a square of latex (the same thing most condoms are made of). Unfortunately lots of people don’t know about dental dams or just don’t use them. This leads to a spread of STDs.
- Or as I said before, be in an exclusive relationship and go and get checked at a clinic.
That’s pretty much it for safe oral sex, if you have any other questions about this or anything else, feel free to go to the “Contact” page and message me. Please be safe about oral, it’s just so easy to not get STDs. Think through what you’re about to do , and respect your body.
Have a great day! Xx
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